Part X: 1990-1999 Real Sex

Part X: 1990-1999 Real SexAre we having sex now or what? The question seems to float on the tongue. Greta Christina, a columnist for On Our Backs, first raises it in an essay in a volume called The Erotic Impulse: Honoring the Sensual Self. "What," she asks, "counts as having sex with someone?"When she slept only with men the criterion was simple. Sex begins when the man enters a woman's body. You could keep count."Len was number one," she writes. "Chris was nu...