When No Doesn't Mean No

When No Doesn't Mean NoCelibate monk-turned-successful sex-and-relationship mentor John Gray is waxing philosophic about a subject dear to our hearts--and lower parts: blow jobs. However, the volume of his diatribe is disconcerting. It's not that we don't share his enthusiasm for the subject, but we aren't used to discussing it so loudly. Gray doesn't stop with blow jobs. In fact, he gets even louder when he talks about other sex acts--masturbation, say--and just wait until he gets to the subjec...