Why New Sex Is The Best Sex

March, 1997

Whether it's awkward and rushed or sleepy and languid, lovemaking at the beginning of a relationship can provide exciting moments and vivid memories. As two people grow more accustomed to each other's bodies and more practied in pleasing each other, they establish an intimacy that will inform all future sex acts. Call it the primal bond.Most of what you hear about new sex are the problems--the imperatives of safe sex, the communication difficulties, the nerves and how it takes a while to get it...